Realistic expectations key to happiness

After quitted a professional job of many years, I opened a gelateria in Toronto where every day is a happy day. It allows me to take time off for 4-5 months in the winter when I do things I like such as traveling, socializing, going to the beach , etc. I like to spend time in Albania and visit warm countries when winter here. I am looking for a "partner in crime" who is eassy going, accomplished, independent, simple, with reasonable expectations. As I see it, happines and expectations have a strong inverse relationship.