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Female
Widowed
Guelph, Ontario
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In their own words

Intelligent artistic woman seeking soulmate.

I am creative, and very musical. I find great joy in learning about new cultures and the music that goes with them. There is just something about Albanians, something I can't quite explain, that makes me want to know them better. I am very direct, and don't play games. In my experience, the most important thing in a relationship is good communication. I love the idea of folks from different cultures meeting, and learning from each other. I was married to my first husband for 15 years, until the day he died. Our relationship was a "roller coaster" like any marriage, but it was a good and stable roller coaster. We made sure the other felt loved and stable. I will accept no less of my partner, and give no less of myself, in a relationship. I am a Christian (Protestant -- Presbyterian), and my values are important to me. My partner and I don't necessarily have to be of the same faith, as long as we share the same values. After having made a lot of Muslim friends in my part of Canada, I have come to discover that Christians and Muslims share a lot of the same values, and that all the major religions are religions of peace, and it's human frailty and extremism that causes comflict, not religion itself.

Appearance
Hair
Brown
Eyes
Green
Physique
Full-Figured
Height
5'  7"   (170 cm)
Family Roots
Dane
Race
White / Caucasian
My Lifestyle
Smoking
Non-Smoker
Drinking
Socially
Has Kids
No
Wants Kids
No
Religion
Christian
Education
High School
Occupation
I'll tell you later
Income
I'll tell you later
Exercise
Occasionally
Politics
Middle Of The Road
What languages do you speak?
English
Favorite Music
Acoustic, Classical, Folk, Country, Instrumental, Gospel, Jazz, Middle Eastern / Persian / Arabic, Rock & Roll, Opera
Favorites
Favorite Hangouts
A quiet cafe, a cultural festival, any place that fosters communication, and new understanding. I would rather be where I can communicate, as opposed to taking a date to the movies.
Favorite Cities
Guelph Ontario (hometown), Toronto ON, Ottawa ON, Montreal QC, Sedona Arizona, New York City NY, Odense Denmark, Copenhagen Denmark
Favorite Clothing Stores
I am not loyal to any particular clothing stores or brands. I like clothes that look good on me, fit me well, and don't cost too much,
Favorite Colors
Red and black
Favorite Country
I have a few favourite countries. My mother was born in Denmark and my father in Canada, where they built their family, so Denmark and Canada. My first husband was American, so the USA will always hold a special place in my heart. The various cultures of the Balkans have always interested me, as well as the music. I would love to meet someone new and interesting and get to know their country, to add to my "favourites" list.
Favorite Drinks
Raki, Rakija, a nice dry red wine, Turkish coffee
Favorite Fast Foods
Tim Horton's, McDonalds, Taco Bell, KFC, any pizza
Favorite Magazines
Reader's Digest, Newsweek
Favorite Dramas
The Handmaid's Tale
Favorite Action Movies
Any of the early James Bond films
Favorite Place To Be Kissed
If we're hot for each other, any place is my favourite place to be kissed.
Favorite Sports Teams
Toronto Blue Jays, Toronto Raptors, Toronto Maple Leafs, and in the last world cup I cheered for Croatia!!!
Favorite Restaurants
There's a little place not far from where I live called "The Danish Place." My family and I have been celebrating the big and little joys of life there, since my mother came to Canada in 1957
Favorite Songs At The Moment
It's been a rough year, and when I want to relax, I like to listen to music in a language i don't understand yet. I have to say in the past year, I've found some absolutely amazing Albanian folk music, thanks to the internet. I also have a lot of Croatian friends, and they've given me their wonderful music as well. Too many amazing songs to pick a favourite.
Favorite TV News Sources
BBC, CBC, CNN
Favorite Foods
I love trying new food from all over the world. I especially love food from the Mediterranean, and from Denmark, where my mother was born.
Favorite Styles Of Music
I believe music is a language in and of itself. I love folk music from around the world. I play the piano by ear, so learning new Melodie’s and harmonies is always interesting.
Interests
Bars
I like bars that aren't too noisy, and if they are loud, I like music with a melody, as opposed to loud pounding rock, or rap. I love a bar that knows how to mix a good cocktail, and has a large drink menu.
Basketball
Toronto Raptors
Card Games
Always interested in learning new card games.
Children
I have no children, and have no intentions of giving birth. Besides, I'm in my 40's! That being said, step-children? No problem!
Dating
Looking for an opportunity to learn about a new and interesting culture. I love a nice accent.
Dogs and Cats
I am a cat person, but dogs and other animals are not a dealbreaker.
Electronics
I am never without my bright red iPhone. I love having it handy if i want to take a picture, look something up, or new music. I check my messages regularly, but will not drop what I'm doing just because the phone rings, or someone sends a text. If I am with you, my attention belongs to you, and not my messages. I look for the same in a partner.
Food
I love food from everywhere!!!!
Gambling
Occasionally, and always with limits. Ironically I've had the best luck when I'm flaming mad. LOL
Guns
I believe in RESPONSIBLE gun ownership. Whether firing it off in celebration (not something that happens in Canada), hunting, target shooting, or in times of danger, you’d better be responsible!!
Internet
I believe that the internet is essential for communication. I love being able to meet people from all over the world, without having to go anywhere. It's much less expensive. LOL
Pets
I have a beautiful black cat named Pyewacket
Photography
I love taking photos of my surroundings. It's a great way to record memories.
Politics
I am a democratic socialist. I believe in earning a living, not earning a survival. Yes to a universal income, but no extremes in either direction.
Radio
I've always loved radio. There is a wonderful community radio station CKWR FM 98.5 that does international programming. My favourites are the Croatian and German programs. Frankly, i think they could use an Albanian one.
Religion
I am a Christian, more specifically Presbyterian. I don’t mind mixed relationships, and think they are a great way for two people to learn about each other’s religions. I have also noticed that a lot of religions share the exact same values. Christians, Jews, and Muslims, for example. We all come from the same roots, and our religions are all peaceful at their core.
Singing
Sometimes. I'd love to meet a man with a nice deep singing voice. I find deeper voices so calming, and there's no denying it, Albanian accents are SEXY!!!!!
Soccer
Last three world cups, I was cheering for Croatia.
Writing
I have a cookbook of my maternal grandmother’s Danish recipes published.
Personality
Adventurousness Average
Affectionateness Average
Trustingness Somewhat Skeptical
Confidence Very Confident
Independence Average
Mood Average
Romance Average
Sociability Somewhat Introverted
Thought Process Average
Tolerance Somewhat Unbending
Insights
Describe the perfect evening.
Spending quality time with one one special. We can be at home, or maybe go to a cafe somewhere, and just talk, and get to know each other.
Describe your perfect weekend.
Enjoying time together as a couple,, or with a close circle of friends, maybe attending a cultural event.
Do you believe in love at first sight?
Yes!
How many kids would you like to have?
None.
How important is someone's physical appearance to you?
Not extremely important. A nice voice is what’s really important to me.
If you could have one super power, what would it be and why?
Telekinesis would be great. It would eliminate the need to struggle too much physically, if things get tough.
What is the purpose of marriage?
To unite two people who love each other. They should get to know each other before making a commitment and decide on things like whether or not they want children, for example.
What is the most important lesson that you've learned?
Don’t try and fit in someone else’s box. Two people need to find their vibe together, and not try so hard to fit into society’s definition.
What do your friends like about you most?
They like my loyalty, wisdom, and spirit.
What gets on your nerves?
Chaotic noise!
What is the most important thing in a relationship?
Mutual respect, l love and balance
What's the best age to get married?
No particular age, when two people are in line, and mutually decide they’re ready.
What turns you off?
Possessiveness and chauvinism
What turns you on?
A nice voice!!! Bonus points if a man speaks English with a nice accent. I find the accents of Eastern Europe to be the sexiest in the world.
What do you hope to be doing five years from now?
I’d like to be living here in Guelph in my amazing apartment, but with a better job, hopefully a partner, and the chance to have a little fun in life.
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